No matter how brilliant and successful you are as a youth, these bad habits will always make you unattractive to people if you don’t turn over a new leaf:
Don’t think about yourself alone. Consider others. The world is not only about only you. It is give and take. When you have your own, you also let others have theirs. Don’t seek what benefits and satisfies only you. Always think about others too in the scheme of things. Selfishness is a major turn-off for people because they will think you only show interest in yourself alone.
Don’t be negative. Look at the world from the positive angle and brighter side. When you perceive things from a negative perspective, people tend to avoid you.
If you are the type that is always too critical about things, or that complains too much, you may be unattractive to people. It is good to criticise, but not all the time, and even when you do, you offer alternatives; be constructive. Make an effort to commend others.
Interjecting others while speaking
Don’t interrupt others when they speak. Let others make their points so that it doesn’t look like it is all about you alone, or that you’re disrespecting them. If you keep interjecting when others make their points, it turns them off.
Poor personal hygiene
When you don’t maintain good personal hygiene like washing your clothes after use, brushing your teeth, taking your bath regularly, cleaning your shoes and ironing your clothes, you may be unattractive to people.
When you lack confidence and are unable to express yourself, you cannot appeal to people; hence they avoid you.
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