You may not know the value of building and maintaining a relationship until the moment you desperately need someone to lift you out of a stressful situation.
Contact, relationship, interconnectedness, and bonding are sometimes necessary to get you out of financial, spiritual, emotional, and social challenges.
That’s why you need to build and maintain relationship with people.
Relationship oils your way to progress, quickens your route to reaching a greater height, and moves you speedily to the rightful position.
Four undergraduate ladies schools in the same university. Two were in their final year while two were just admitted.
The newly admitted two ladies don’t have accommodation yet. One of the newly admitted ladies is related to one of the two graduating ladies.
But because the fresh undergraduate ladies could not secure accommodation, the two final-year students offered to accommodate them.
And so life went on. After putting up with the senior ones for some months, the two younger ladies secured a room self-contained of their own.
They moved in, but the relationship with the two older ladies continued. However, when the semester was running to an end, and as the older two were rounding off their final year academic activities, their landlord reminded them that their rent was due and that they will need to pack out because they would not want to pay for another rent since they were about going.
Stop quarreling and fighting. And if you must quarrel find a way to end it. Don’t keep malice, and don’t fight dirty. Think about the future. Settle quarrel. Have a heart that forgives.
By and by, they were ordered to pack out. What is the option open to them? They had to approach the newly admitted ladies to grant them accommodation pending when they will complete their programmes because they still have a lot to do.
The ladies opened their doors to them wide. Imagine if the relationship had been so bad. Imagine if the senior ones were callous, and shut their doors when the younger ones needed them.
What goes round comes round. The need to build and maintain a healthy relationship is sacrosanct. Build and maintain a good relationship because you don’t know who may facilitate your success.
When last did you call your childhood friends? When last did you get in touch with that neighbour of yours or your family? Did you respond to their calls when they needed you?
Do you fight to finish in the school? Do you quarrel dirty and keep malice? Build cordial relationships. Stop quarreling and fighting. And if you must quarrel find a way to end it. Don’t keep malice, and don’t fight dirty. Think about the future. Settle quarrel. Have a heart that forgives. You cannot afford to fight to finish.
You need somebody, but must be careful of a relationship that will be detrimental to your life.
How to Achieve Good Relationship
Be trustworthy.
Be honest.
Don’t be selfish.
Don’t be difficult to the other person.
Support and empathise with other fellows when they pass through difficult situations.
Stop quarreling and fighting. And if you must quarrel, find a way to end it.
Don’t keep malice, and don’t fight dirty. Think about the future. Settle quarrel.
Have a heart that forgives. You cannot afford to fight to finish.
Consequences of Good Relationship
Good relationship plays key roles in your life. A state of being connected to other people decreases stress when you are passing through it; it makes you happy; you sleep better; it leads to longer life
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